A viewer asks, "What is the polite, diplomatic, politically correct way to decline an invitation to a mixed dancing wedding where people will be dressed immodestly?" Rabbi Reuven says, there are two options: tell them you can't go, or tell them the truth of why you can't go. If you care about them, you should politely explain to them that the Torah forbids attending mixed dancing events and immodesty is something HaShem dislikes very much. Explain to them the severity of immodesty and mixed dancing or just send them a link to one of our lectures.